Iwo samachitcha kuti maphunziro a potty, koma njira yatsopanoyi imakwaniritsa zotsatira zomwezo.Ana a miyezi 7 akugwiritsa ntchito potty ndipo makolo akutaya matewera.
Wolemba zachipatala wa Early Show Dr. Emily Senay anapita ku banja la Twelker kumene kuyitana kwa chilengedwe kumangonong'oneza m'khutu: "Ssss-sssss."
Pamene Kate Twelker akuganiza kuti mwana wake wa miyezi 4 Lucia ayenera kupita, ali pomwepo ndi poto.
"Samapita ngati sakufunika," akutero Twelker."Koma, kwenikweni, imamuuza kuti 'Hei, zili bwino tsopano, ukhoza kumasuka.'
Koma musatchule kuti "maphunziro a potty," amawatcha "kuthetsa kulankhulana."Kuyambira tsiku loyamba, makolo amazoloŵera ana awo kulabadira kufunika kopita.
"Anali wokhumudwa nthawi iliyonse akamakodola thewera," akutero Twelker."Kwa ine, zikumupangitsa kukhala wosangalala, ndipo kukulitsa ubale pakati pathu - kudalirana kowonjezerekako."
Christine Gross-Loh analera ana ake aamuna awiri pogwiritsa ntchito njirayi, ndipo amagwira ntchito ngati mlangizi kudzera pawebusaiti yotchedwa diaperfreebaby.org kuthandiza makolo ena kuzindikira ndi kuchitapo kanthu ku zilakolako zachibadwa za mwana wawo.
"M'lingaliro lina mwana wanu akukuphunzitsani," akutero Gross-Loh."N'zokhudza kulankhulana za zofunika zofunika kwambiri zimene mwana wanu amakuuzani kuyambira pamene anabadwa. Safuna kudzidetsa okha; amadziwa nthawi yomwe akufuna kupita kuchimbudzi. Akhoza kukangana kapena kugwedeza kapena kugwedeza. grimace ndipo, monga kholo, ngati mutayamba kumvetsera zizindikirozi, monga momwe mumamvera kufunikira kwa mwana wanu kudya kapena kugona, ndiye kuti mumaphunzira pamene akuyenera kupita kuchimbudzi."
Akatswiri ena sakukhulupirira.
Dr. Chris Lucas wa ku New York University Child Study Center anati: “Miyezi 18 isanakwane, ana sadziwa ngati chikhodzodzo chadzaza, kaya chilibe kanthu, kaya ndi chonyowa, ndiponso kuti ali ndi luso louza makolo zinthuzo. ali ndi malire."
Koma Twelker akuyembekeza kuti zopindulitsa zidzapitilira maphunziro a potty.
"Akatha kuyenda yekha, mwachiyembekezo, adziwa kuti akhoza kupita yekha kumphika," akutero."Kwa ine, njira iliyonse yomwe ndingalankhulire naye, njira ina iliyonse, zikutanthauza kuti tidzakhala ndi ubale wabwino, tsopano komanso mtsogolo."
Panopa pali magulu 35 a "Kuthetsa Kuyankhulana" kuzungulira dziko lonse lapansi opangidwa ndi diaperfreebaby.org.Maguluwa amabweretsa pamodzi amayi omwe amagawana zambiri ndikuthandizirana pakufuna kukhala ndi mwana wopanda thewera.
M'dziko lomwe likuchulukirachulukira lopikisana la makolo, mupezadi omwe amawona kuti iyi ndi njira ina yopitira patsogolo pagulu lonselo.Koma Dr. Senay akuti izi zikanakhaladi zotsutsana ndi zomwe maguluwa akuyesera kukwaniritsa.Sakhazikitsa zaka zomwe amati ana ayenera kukhala opanda matewera.Amanenadi kuti ana ndi makolo ayenera kumvetserana ndi kuyankhana wina ndi mnzake.
Ponena za makolo ogwira ntchito, osamalira amene amatsatira malangizo a makolo angachitedi zimenezi.Ndipo kuthetsa kulankhulana kungakhale kwanthawi yochepa.Sikuyenera kukhala nthawi zonse.
Nthawi yotumiza: Jan-20-2024